we are born in history. let us make it beautiful.

Christmas is a time to look within
how much you and me are aware of others.
the feast brings Christ's joy and love. what do we bring for others.

be united and always happy.
we are social being and like to relate with humans as well as nature. we got to live together,respecting all. enjoy your union.

Man is unique because he is a person, a person with some sense as well as non-sense.

Life is a single road, but seems many some points of life, due to turnings which we cannot see. We only realize later in our life. We receive it without thinking but die  reflecting.

Girl child today

                                                            Girl child day

This beautiful creation would have not possible with out woman’s presence. Many a time’s the male group and some women do believe that woman is incomplete with out man. For me, woman is complete and with woman completed the great work of creation.

Human being is not human until or unless it accepts female and male as one with equal respect in mind and heart. Male is not higher than woman or woman is not lower than man. If the world exists till today because creation accepts both male and female. It respects all. There is no discrimination, racism and classes. Nature is understood it not human beings.

What is wrong with us oh people?

Today the Catholic Church celebrates the birthday of Mother Mary “Mother of Jesus”. Is not it amazing? This feast invites us to have an attitude of equality, respect and change of believes. Mary was also a girl child, a woman in a period, when women were not valued but God valued because God is good, father, just and love. He created all of us as a daughter and son, not something else.

Today I need to remember my root, “I am born of a woman (who was once a girl child too, later my mother), no matter what gender (female or male) I belong to.

If there were no mama Mary, no Jesus

If there were not my mother, no Nirdosh Kindo

If there were no woman, no world

because the word world begins with latter W.

So let us teach ourselves

W for woman = one who makes our human world keep going, who is very much part of our human life.

            It reminds me the scripture: -

                        so there is no difference

                        between Jews and gentiles,

                        between slaves and free people,

                        between men and woman:

                        you are all one in union with Christ Jesus.

Let us pray to mother Mary to intercede for us

 to have good attitude towards women,

 girls and change of beliefs too.

Happy Birthday of Mother Mary and Happy Girl Child day to all. 

In frustration nothing seems to be okay, it is dark experience; light is waiting on you then.

A light to my path is surya light, no its gospel light.

I heard peace calling me to school, collage, church, and prayer house found nowhere. I was tired sitting quietly heard once more here… here…in you.

I have very little knowledge

You have little more knowledge

We have a lot of knowledge when

There is sharing. We become more human.

God cares for me, I need to feed myself with good food, food will produce new sell in you, changed person.

Jesus lived his life on the very earth; it means we are at right place. Make best use of this life.

Thought of the day

Light is invisible, but not unnoticeable. Similarly we are perishable, but not unremarkable. 

GOOD MORNING &

 HAPPY KRISHNA JANMASTMI 

Jesus lived his life as human because he found it good. It is worth living here.

God when is so good, you don’t be a fool. Simply means be good not bad.

What is ❌ with us o people⁉

            Today I was thinking about the peaceful world sitting on my desk. There were people with such a beautiful smiles, wishing joy and sharing sweets. I was delighted to be a part of this ideal word. The secret of this world was a loving, caring attitudes. They were one in hearts and thoughts. Religions were guiding and uniting each one of them with beautiful teachings. They were open to new leanings. There was no compromise with religion virtues, values and politics. Everything was okay. They respected all what ever groups and brought harmony in the society. What a lovely human world it was!

I was touched by cool wind and came back to my sense. I felt that wind is saying something. It shocked me for some times. I said to myself. What is wrong with me? Nature is not always mute. It knows our problems. It can sense what we feel, how do we struggle in life. It can’t speak like us human. The wind said "what is ❌ with you, o people".

This is not only affecting our existing but nature too. Nature is not happy because her one part (human beings) is at pain. When speak of life think about death and death makes us aware and gives much meaning to life. Therefore silence is our great teacher, learn to be in nature some times. It will teach you life lesson.

Be happy & live happy

New world “pornography”

Today I had ethics exam on pornography. Porn simply means considering the other human person thing, or object. My companion asked me. If there are some girls on a beach with very less clothes. Is it porn? What about men on the beach only with an inner? All these are not porn. Nudity is not porn. Porn is when one takes person for granted and exposes him/her as an object to him/her and the world. This is also understood as women’s exploitation. Because porn is domination of men over women.

Now how do I define pornography? According to me porn is exaggeration of the human organs. Sexual act is not porn. It is preformed under commitment. But here human person is used, abused, and reduce to object. Pornography is neither good for enjoyment not good for earning money. It is against the natural law. This act is creating unnecessary physical and mental disorder in life. Porn affects the whole human person.

             Can a good person get affected by porn? Yes if only he/she knows his /her limit and committed to them. So be good person and help each other to be a true human person. don’t build a castle on lie. So take care of yourselves……

A great game

It is corruption the great game. Corruption is a big market at present time. Most of the good is the result of corruption. This is not only India’s favorite game but whole world is also involved whole heatedly. I have learnt this that means do not justify the end. How far is it true to day?

Are we like to play this game? Many said to me no, some it is necessary today. We need to be clever and smart every where few said. Many times I question my self, can’t we live without corruption? Who made it necessary? How far you and I are responsible? So let us think about it…. 

Life is a musical instrument. It is full of surprising tunes and beats. Every time when this life is strummed, blown, and hit. there is music in it. It is brass, strings, woodwind, percussion ones played life experiences them beautiful.

What type of music instruments you want to be for the others? 

Festival brings joy, enhances devotion, firms relations,

Spreads love and peace around. Above all unites the society and nation.

It is mela where people show their common love for god and people. It

Brings oneta in different way of lives. It is a celebration of human beings

Which shares common understandings?

I want to know what life is.

Breath is life, movement is life,

Verbal conversation is life,

Every thing you think and do is life,

 Life is in you, take care of it.

In return you learn what life to you is. 

Every time you go away I feel so lifeless,

Every time I close my eyes

I know where you are going

My heart will go on with you to feel

Forever. It’s my interest.

It’s upto you

Life has no choice but you.

Today I came across a beautiful poem

Which inspire me whole day:-

One flower can make the dream,

One tree can start a forest,

One bird can herald spring,

One smile begins a friendship,

One handclasp lifts a soul,

One star can guide a shop at sea,

One word can frame the goal,

One sunbeam lights a room,

One vote can change the nation,

One candle wipes out darkness,

One laugh will conquer gloom,

One step starts each journey,

One word starts each prayer,

One hope will raise our spirits,

One touch can show you care,

One voice can speak with wisdom,

One heart can know what is true,

One life can make the difference,

One man can change whole world.

It is very true. We need to be stand for ourselves.

It is our decision to respond to the world. We need

to be firm and strong in our conviction. If only we

Can bring change to us and others.

You see it’s upto you

________________

Ref. borrowed from st. Pauls bookmark

Problem is not problem unless you consider it problem. Problem is life giving lesson to the problematic people without solution.

Wonderful things happen only to people who are aware about it.

We are free

In my anthropology course, I came across –human beings are always free. I agree with it. No one can dominate our inner freedom, even though we are in some terrible situation or under persecutions. Freedom is a natural gift. This is the first thing before you and me to introduce to faith in others and gods. Actually for me as a believer god puts freedom in my deep thoughts, for an atheist freedom is from nature. We are free always no matter. So free yourself from yourself. Your freedom is you treasure, take care of it. So freely live your freedom with meaning.

The Goodness of Good

            What is good? Why is good always questioned? Good is something that makes me feel comfortable and sets me free from worries. Joy is a result of good. Good is always considered in contrast with (bad) evil. Many a time, we hear people saying that there is evil in this world. What is the problem of evil? We always try to understand the problem of evil through the context of suffering and pain. Where there is sickness, mental stress and physically imperfect, one is considered under the effect of evil. We are so much concentrated in evil that good is not valued much. Good is always right thing to do. The goodness of good is, it encourages us positively and directs us to a good life. Why is good so weak then?

Story

        Some stories are read, experienced, lived and shared. Story is alive. It is an example for others. Story does begin with story. One story leads to another. I am a story. You too are stories. Story matters, many stories matter. Every story has something to say. What is my story all about? How is it? Story is our guide line and face. This story will remain always incomplete because it is you and me who are writing. It is not fiction but true story. We are real. Therefore what is there on the sheet of our mind is printed forever. What we are, here is the proof to it. We are here on earth to create a new story. So my friends write a story which is based on a true person because story is immortal. So take care of your story ……and the world will give you glory. 

Sleep

            Sleep is a medicine. Don’t you think so? I am not so sure about it. I have slept in my tiredness, in my free time, in my sickness, in meditation, in lectures, in Eucharist, in study time, in journey and lastly on my bed. I sleep by day and by night. What type of medicine is sleep then? Sleep is good, over sleep is bad. No, how can it be good and bad. We slept after our birth for a long time. We need sleep, there is no time especially today’s world. We need it because we have revolt against the night. We are fighting with ourselves. Sleep is a medicine till today. We are sleeping because we are tired of ourselves not with the nature around. So sleep well when ever you and I have time. Take care of your self lest you be a sleeping bear for all your life. Animals have no time to sleep, let us not be counted among them. So I wish you sleep like human not animal. Enjoy your sleeps. What is your opinion about this………………. 

Say a prayer

            Prayer is a way to relate with the Almighty. Prayer is not just a mental activity, but also a spiritual act. This is a powerful. It unites both body and soul. To say a prayer simply means to care for another person like you and me. Prayer is words come out spontaneously. It is a blessing for those who pray. Prayer has no specific form. It comes from spirit itself when we are not expected. Of course we pray every day with out failing but the interest is missing. True prayer comes from the true heart and mind. Prayer is an expression of live and love is free. Pray for every one, pray for yourself, pray for me and others. Because it is the most wanted need in the world, if not there is no love no care no respect. Every thing without prayer is rubbish. Everything without love is worthless. Everything without care is illusion. Give respect get respect is just a quote with the help of a small prayer you can receive everything. So say a prayer…………………..

Sad

            This is an emotion which comes from the heart. Today I was just struck by this feeling. I am feeling sad for unknowing thing. Why is sadness so strong? Why I am shaking. There is uneasy feeling in me. Sad news and sad feelings are unfair things. I right now prefer to use the word unpleasant. This gives me comfort and feels good. It is just because he is my friend. I know him. I see him everyday. I am facing questions such as why the impact of sadness is strong for them I know. What impact has on me of the news paper where I read sad news everyday? What role emotion got to play in our lives? Is it negative or positive experience?

I personally feel that we are living here on earth for enjoyment or suffering but meaning sake. Yes, there are times need to express these emotions. Sadness is just one thing but most important is learning to express it. We are not only rational, human, spiritual, but sharing beings. Therefore there are different feelings as a part of our lives. Sadness is sad. It is based on mood. So it is on me whether to be unhappy. So have genuine feelings not superficial because these are graces not curses.    

Doing something is always good.

Living it is something wonderful.

Being an exemplary man is simply wonderful.

Inspiring person is mirror of the society.

Understand the time and be a change to all.

Searching meaning in life

Mission is not a choice. Mission is given to us. Every person is missionary of God. I am a believer, for me God has a message to convey to people. I am not a messenger, if I am not doing what I am supposed to do. My message gets lost if I don’t take care of it. I am not a guest here. Missionary is not a guest but family. What makes me to feel missionary is to receive what others have to share because God speaks through others also. Missionary is not a boss, but servant leader. Missionary is not threat. He is sharing well. Missionary is a grace to the place. He is called to be with them. Mission means working with and for god. He can not do every thing alone. Missionary is one who is willing not forced.

            Every one has to fulfil mission, my mission is to be good, share good news. Going for a mission is not having outings and picnics.  Good news is not a bad news. It is good because it gives positive things. Good news is all about good life. Good news does not teach violence, hate. It brings joy, love, hope and care. Missionary possessed all these and personal values. Missionary is simply experience. We are for God and God for us. We are come from God and going to meet in different part of the life and the world. We find same God in every human and the parts of the world. He is present before we reach there. He welcomes us and guides us in His own ways. He is even in the nature. This search begins in the nature. People find him in nature first and then understand the secret. My mission means to meet people of God. We meet in people grace of God, saints of God, God of original blessings.

            God reveals his relationship through missionary. Therefore missionary is a person of beautiful heart, good and covenant to the people who don’t know him. People see missionary as a friends, family not a guest .missionary vocation is Almighty’s promise to His people. It is the answer of their prayer. I see this aspect with such view. We are loved by our god so he sends his chosen one to the people have not yet known him. Many times there are some misunderstandings in the works of God. A missionary is full of courage, doubts, and love.

            Lastly missionary is not a worker only but also a mouth of God. The scripture says; the Sprit of the Lord is upon me, He has appointed me for His mission. I have to be obedient to him. Though it is risky, and challenging.

           

            Be missionary first to yourself, world will follow you then.

Imagination

I am always amazed with the creativity in the movies. I am impressed by the sense of imagination especially in Greek movies. I really wonder the way they think and bring out quality product. It makes me to think that life is not only based on real but also dreams and imagination. They have got not only sense of imagination. But humours, seriousness, thought provoking words, sense and phrases, above all courageous. They do everything with love and pride. I find something hard to digest because of my inability to think that way. I liked Greek movies because I personally find it well expressed and intellectual. They make me to think because the since are not one way but linking many thinks together. So enjoy not only movies but wonder the imagination. Happy watching movie………….

life is to enjoy. remind yourself every time,
 that we have one life.
so make good of it.
live it, make it
 beautiful.

Searching meaning in life

Mission is not a choice. Mission is given to us. Every person is missionary of God. I am a believer, for me God has a message to convey to people. I am not a messenger, if I am not doing what I am supposed to do. My message gets lost if I don’t take care of it. I am not a guest here. Missionary is not a guest but family. What makes me to feel missionary is to receive what others have to share because God speaks through others also. Missionary is not a boss, but servant leader. Missionary is not threat. He is sharing well. Missionary is a grace to the place. He is called to be with them. Mission means working with and for god. He can not do every thing alone. Missionary is one who is willing not forced.

            Every one has to fulfill mission, my mission is to be good, share good news. Going for a mission is not having outings and picnics.  Good news is not a bad news. It is good because it gives positive things. Good news is all about good life. Good news does not teach violence, hate. It brings joy, love, hope and care. Missionary possessed all these and personal values. Missionary is simply experience. We are for God and God for us. We are come from God and going to meet in different part of the life and the world. We find same God in every human and the parts of the world. He is present before we reach there. He welcomes us and guides us in His own ways. He is even in the nature. This search begins in the nature. People find him in nature first and then understand the secret. My mission means to meet people of God. We meet in people grace of God, saints of God, God of original blessings.

            God reveals his relationship through missionary. Therefore missionary is a person of beautiful heart, good and covenant to the people who don’t know him. People see missionary as a friends, family not a guest .missionary vocation is Almighty’s promise to His people. It is the answer of their prayer. I see this aspect with such view. We are loved by our god so he sends his chosen one to the people have not yet known him. Many times there are some misunderstandings in the works of God. A missionary is full of courage, doubts, and love.

            Lastly missionary is not a worker only but also a mouth of God. The scripture says; the Sprit of the Lord is upon me, He has appointed me for His mission. I have to be obedient to him. Though it is risky, and challenging.

           

            Be missionary first to yourself, world will follow you then.

I am a glass.

 Drop me and there is a breakage.

You are human being not glass. 

So take care of your self.

I got this thought yesterday 

while breaking the old tube

 Light against the wall.

Everything speaks in this world.

 We just need to hear them.

DON’T TALK TO ME

Today I experienced this sentence. It was hard to digest the impact of it. This is very powerful words especially when it is said with particular expression. I felt like my senses are lost and my stomach upset. I don’t know why one of my fried said it. I was comfortless for some times. One another friends disturbed my way I said get out man. I am already late for my class. I am talking here about my feeling and shock I have received this is what happened to some of us who are not ready to accept this type of situations. We need to learn to take care of us. I was happy just before this occurred. Accept this as happy mess in life for sometimes

It is good to have some experience like this. This sentence, “don’t take to me” may create good thoughts. It should not lead to mental sickness. I hope “don’t talk to me” means not this point of time but some other times. Now I feel good about this experience which makes me happy for this learning. 

Living a Life as an Eternal Bachelor

           

            Life is a mission. Each one of us is a messenger. Life is a gift for others.  It is a gift to all equally whether we will or not. Life is free and coming from God. Therefore there is some purpose to meet which each one has to find out in life. Life comes with both joy and sorrow. The philosophy of life is to learn to coup with the situations and time. It is rightly said that if you have why to live can live any how. Life is dynamic. Therefore we need to understand its ways. Life is to share, live and enjoy. St. Irenaeus has rightly said that” the glory of God is the man fully alive. We are here to live our life to the full. As a person in his childhood finds every thing interesting and amusing. Similarly every one need to find thing suiting and lively. The simple rule of life is to love every thing doing in a proper way. Life has only one message is that to live life as an Eternal Bachelor. This is our work and glory. Life is creative and wonderful among all its misery. This should be an attitude to be an eternal bachelor.  

            Eternal Bachelor does not mean only being single forever, enjoying alone but also remain always young in Heart and Mind. Living a life always young is possible through the right Thoughts and Deeds. When we were born, God has already blessed us with all possibilities. We are social being. Therefore it is necessary to live in society. We enjoy gathering, and sharing our feelings and emotions. Our aim should be to live an exemplary life. This is a self-knowledge which helps to live life correctly and consciously. Many people find life boring and disinterested because there is no motivation, no discipline in life. Living life with the attitude of ever active will give meaning to us. There are people who live life with zeal, enthusiasm and with great love. This is ever lasting youthfulness. The world is full of such examples such as Stephan Hawkins, Nick, Nelson Mandela, APJ Abdul kalam, Don Bosco, and so on. Eternal bachelor life has two aspects- Secular understanding, and Religious understanding. Both the aspects are important in life. It is not necessary to be religious to be bachelor and single to be called a bachelor. We categorize this understanding like previous sentence because of our misunderstanding or having not enough knowledge. The simple understanding is to be True to your self. There are many ways to be youthful according to the person to person. For the young person the bachelor means to be single, attractive, and lively and for the experienced person it means to be responsible and sensible towards himself and other. Similarly for religious it means union with God, set apart, becoming like God in action and thoughts. I too feel that religious bachelor means to be an authentic person. Who lives not for himself but for the humanity. He finds satisfaction in thinking good about others and doing God’s works. Today we need to be active and creative in our life. There is no option to be single and simple. We are called to be ever bachelor and fast in thinking and doing. This activeness is seen when we move out from our selves. Our generosity keeps us always graceful.

            Many times question arises that am I living only for today? Am I also living for eternal? When I thought over it, I found that I am only concentrating on life which is full of energy. This is not for ever but only for today. According to me, we are not only here to live for today or just few years, but for eternity. This is the understanding of the Christian scripture.

            According to the Bible, our life should be a witness to Christ which calls for constantly active participation. Many times we simply devote our time and energy to our books, personal affairs, and worldly things. Although we must give attention to the basic things that are necessary to life, we make a big mistake when only focus on knowledge, properties and so on (temporal matters ) while neglecting eternal spiritual issue that will pass from the life into the next. This is the danger we mostly face in our lives. This topic “Living a Life as an Eternal Bachelor” also brings to my mind priorities in life. It makes me to think that am I investing my life in just bachelor or eternity?. Jesus invested in eternity and many also who followed Him later. Life of Jesus was an exemplary. He lived and worked for others having in mind that it was not his but God’s work. And whatever we do for Jesus will last. Don’t we think it would be wise to reflect on our life prayerfully.

            However, people of  today’s world live for the present, seeking for fame and wealth. Nothing is wrong with money and prosperity. But I feel that we need to rise from the level of self-centeredness to self-acknowledgement. We are living primarily for today but need also to invest our life wisely in our eternal future. This way of life is much painful and demands a lot of sacrifices. The last line which inspire me is to be happy the way I am, being content with myself as to live my life extraordinary way. The last message I got while dealing with this topic is take care of yourself and good things will come your way (keep smiling to remain forever young).

 

Joy

Our human journey begins with love, works through desire, and completes in joy. 

When our hearts finally find peace is called joy. But at present joy is fulfillment of our 

desire, which brings to rest. It starts with love and pushes us to its goal.

When we reach or complete this journey which began in love gives joy. This virtue is a 

gift of God. So let us seek real joy for you and me.

Human free will

            Evil (bad) means pains, sufferings, and Good means sympathy, joy, love. This is all because of our freedom. God is not responsible for it. God has created you and me, with free will. It does not mean that God can not control us. Human freewill depends its use and abuse. It makes best use of it.

            One thing we need to always remember that without God life makes no sense. Many present philosophers say believe in yourself, you are capable of doing wonders but the Holy Bible guides us-

 “Everything got started in Him and finds its purpose in Him.”  (Colossians (1; 16)

Human person

Many times we encounter this question.

Who is human person?

Human person is the one who follows social and personal rules. He is committed. He is true to himself. He is able to correct and accept corrections. There is joy wherever he goes. He is a person of good and friendly attitudes. He is loving and caring. His simple behaviour is the source of goodness.

A personal call to be honest

We live in a world of opportunities and surprises.

 The World offers us success and failure as well.

 Failure does not mean defeat but one steady step towards goal.

Life is not only about

 Success and failure,

 Fame and money,

Happiness and sadness.

The meaning of life is to live for others.

Life is not worth living,

 If it is selfish.

I agree with

The Angle of Mercy (Bl. Mother Teresa),

“God has not called me to be SUCCESSFUL….

He called me to be FAITHFUL…. “

This is a need of the time.

Let us become honest person.

“Enjoy happy life”

                                                            Bloom shine be happy

           

human life is precious in the eyes, not only to us living being but also to God. We are on this earth for a purpose. We can’t afford to live a life with emptiness all through our life. Life is to live properly with certain personal and social principles. We are here to shine and share goodness through our thinking, dealing and respecting each and every thing.  Let every person find joy in living and satisfaction in doing well to the society and to him/her. As God’s creation let us bloom and shine wherever we are planted. Someone has rightly said “The glory of God is to person fully alive”.

Life

            Life is a beautiful gift, which is a mystery. One has to understand it through experiences. Life is like a flowing river. This river flows with joy, peace, and through different stages of life. It never forgets its routs because it is directed by God. Every human being some where in life feels the need of this God. God is the source of life to all beings. That is why God is Life.  And life flows from Him. Since he is a mysterious person, life on the earth remained another mystery. It always tries to reach higher state. The aim of this life is reaching out for the eternity to understand that there is a higher consciousness. Life is always understood with the correspondence with other person, thing and abstract noun. This is the mystery of life and later it becomes a history.

the eye of a person.

Open the eyes to the promised land.